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The
following is an excerpt from an audio program designed by Michael
Steelman, M.D. Dr. Steelman and Active 8, L.L.C., have designed the
fantastic new Better Health Better Life Diet Plan. This is the
first weight management program that gives the results of a physicians
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You can't begin making meaningful
changes in your eating habits until you know what those habits are, and
they're going to surprise you.
Believe it or not, most of us
really don't realize what we eat on a daily basis. Many times we
eat for reasons other than hunger. Has that ever happened to you?
Of course it has. When that happens, we call it a `trigger.'
A trigger is anything that causes us to eat, when we're not really
hungry. To give you an example, I have a patient, who's trigger is
pizza. This is what we call a visual trigger. Whenever he
sees a pizza, even if it's on TV, he nearly can't control himself.
He heads for the phone and orders a medium meat lovers pizza from Pizza
Hut. He really wasn't hungry, it just that he really loves the
taste of pizza, and the very sight of one, can cause him to have a
tremendous desire to eat.
And there are other types of
triggers too. Yours may be stress for instance. If it
is.....then your trigger is emotional not visual. When your
feeling really stressed, you reach for crunchy foods like nuts, chips,
cheese and crackers etc.
Other triggers may be specific
activities or events. For example, when your best friend calls on
the phone and you know you're going to talk for a while, do you grab a
drink or a snack? How about when they come over for coffee?
Are there cookies or cake accompanying that cup of java?
There are tons of triggers, so
many in fact that list is nearly endless. So let's look at some
examples of triggers other than hunger.
Let's see how a phone call might
trigger us to want to eat. Let's say you don't go to the cookie
jar when your friend calls, but if the call was about something that
upset you or even hurt your feelings, you might find yourself wanting to
get into the refrigerator when you hang up the receiver. In this
case, hurt feelings could be a trigger to eat. This can, and
probably does happen, even if you just finished a meal a short while ago
and you're not really hungry. Or, the call may have made you
angry. Again, once you hang up the phone, you may find yourself
reaching for something to eat. In this case, you may be eating
because your angry or hurt, and your eating has nothing to do with
hunger.
It's important that you don't
confuse the desire to eat with hunger. You can want to
eat.....even feel like you need to eat....but it's not because your
stomach is asking for food. It may be because you have an
unfulfilled need, that you're used to filling up with food. We all
have appetites. We all have the desire to eat....but when we
confuse it with hunger, we run into trouble. We'll learn how to
avoid this today.
Another type of trigger is called
a paired association. This is the pairing of eating with a
specific activity or event. Have you ever gone to a birthday party
and not seen a cake and ice cream. Of course not. Cake and
ice cream are traditional birthday foods. Or how about watching a
football game, just how many hot dogs and beers do you consume during a
game. And what's a movie without popcorn and candy? All
these are paired associations. A specific event and food that seem
inseparable. Notice I said seem....because they don't have to be
thought of together. We'll talk more about this later.
A more general paired association
is the habit of eating anything along with an activity, such as eating
and watching TV. People with this habit may, for example, eat a
full evening meal and then go in the family room for an evening of TV.
But within a couple of hours, they find themselves roaming in the
kitchen. There is no way you're physically hungry, but instead
you've associated eating with watching television. Watching
television becomes the trigger to eat. And you practice it
repeatedly. To some, this trigger is a very powerful one!
Throughout this series, we'll talk
about other triggers for eating. I'll tell you how to handle these
triggers without eating.
Of course, you can't even begin
dealing with triggers until you know exactly what your eating habits
are. The 'best' way to determine exactly what your eating habits
are is to keep a food record or diary. And this food record should
do more than just show you what and how much you've eaten. It will
also include information that is often just as important as what you put
in your mouth, things like, when you eat, where you eat and with whom
you are eating. It's this kind of information that helps you
identify what your triggers are. Our food record or diary is going
to be something you make up yourself, we're going to personalize it to
you. You're going to be surprised at how much fun this will be and how
much you're going to learn from it. One of the biggest things
you're going to learn is how you gained weight.
Let's look at an example of what
you might learn by keeping your food record. Let's say that you
skipped breakfast. You go to work and by ten o'clock in the
morning, you're feeling hungry. Some rat of an office worker
brings in doughnuts, and of course, you eat a couple. That
certainly takes the edge off for now, and keeps you from being hungry at
lunchtime. So, you don't eat lunch. But, by mid-afternoon, guess
what, you're starving.
So here comes the trip to the
vending machine to grab a candy bar. Well that works for a while,
and the afternoon passes......you go home and realize you are absolutely
famished. The instant you walk in your front door, you make a
beeline to the kitchen and grab the first thing you see. Potato
chips, crackers, candy, cookies, whatever. Your body has been
virtually starved of nutrients all day long. And by the time you
sit down to the dinner table, your body is crying for nourishment, and
so you eat a large evening meal.
Then you settle in front of the TV
for a few hours, grab a snack or two during the comedy hour and maybe
Monday night football, then it's off to bed. Right? The next
morning, you're not hungry, because you just ate a few hours ago, so you
skip breakfast. And the whole cycle begins again.
This is just one example of the
kind of information that becomes apparent when you keep a food record.
You will find at least one pattern. And probably many really.
And once you recognize them, you can begin changing them.
I'll bet you've already started to
figure out something very important. We all know people that
aren't over-weight and outwardly at least, they never seem to have
trouble staying thin. Usually these folks only eat when they're
hungry, and simply don't eat in response to other triggers. And
that's exactly what we're going to learn to do.
Now that you know why it is
important to keep a food record, let's look at how simple it is to do
one.
The
Food Record Today
In the old days, keeping a food
record required a lot of time, dedication and some real work. You
have to carry a paper food record with you at all times and manually
enter everything you ate and drank in the course of the day. Then
when you had to take some extra time each day and look up all the
calories, fat grams, carbohydrates and other nutritional information in
a book and list them all out. Then you added it all up and tried
to figure out how you did for the day. NOT ANY MORE!
Today it’s all automatic and done
for you. The Active 8 On-Line Food Journal is fantastic, it's
complete, instantaneous and it’s FREE! Doesn’t cost you a penny.
Just get on line and go to
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and click on the "On-Line Food Journal". You’ll love it!!
Ok, are we straight on the food
record story? It's important. It make makes a difference. Do it! |